Last Fall, the world lost one of our most kind, genuine, and intelligent people. To know Eric Moser was to love him. Since that dark October day, many beautiful thoughts and memories have been shared about Eric. This tribute will not be the most eloquent. Eric is precisely the person I would have called upon to help me author a tribute to a childhood friend. He always knew exactly what to say. Nonetheless, February 27 is Eric’s birthday and these words endeavor to remember him fondly and celebrate the life of a dear friend.
I first met Eric in 1986, when we both attended Garfield Middle School. We quickly became friends and had so many fun times over the years. Our high school group was not the popular pack, but more like an early version of the “Big Bang Theory” cast. Eric made such a good impression on classmates. He was genuinely nice to everyone, regardless of their grades or socioeconomic status. I have heard from many former classmates that are saddened by his passing. They all use the same descriptions…nice, kind, helpful. A friend recently said “I never had to ask him for help but so many times he did.” Another described a “strong moral compass, a passion for knowledge, and a quiet kindness toward life.”
Our lives took parallel tracks through college and graduate school, always staying in touch and being there for the big moments. As adulthood progressed, it was a joy to see Eric interact with his family and introduce him to my own daughter. Whether conversations were weeks or months apart, the most splendid friendship remained.
Eric would have had little use for an exhaustive list of praise for him. Rather, he was humble in spite of his many talents and accomplishments. He was an outstanding father, devoted husband, and loyal son. He was an incredible attorney. He loved art, music, nature, discussing politics, and a healthy debate. Eric loved the Lord and had a passion for service to the Church.
The headlines each day make us all want a better world. We would take a big step in the right direction if we had more people like Eric Moser. Please join me in celebrating his life and legacy. Treat your neighbors with kindness. Take a genuine interest in people’s lives, even if they do not share your views or culture. Help people whenever you can. Do not judge people’s mistakes, but celebrate their abilities. Disagree with someone, then maintain a healthy respect when it is over. Love your children unconditionally. Maintain a love for your spouse that others admire and see as an example. Appreciate multiple genres of music. Take time to reflect and to smell the roses. Encourage people with words and deeds. Trust others when they do not always earn it. Smile often. Be optimistic whenever you can. Be your genuine self and do not let others hold you back. Call and visit your friends. Know that each conversation could be your last and make it a good one.
One day, someone will be tasked with writing a memory about each of us. Be like Eric Moser and provide a lifetime of good material about which they can write. Matthew 5:16 says “let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Eric Moser lived this every day and the world was a better place because of it.
